That's more or less what I'm doing; I've got a big house ready to dump spares into, and anyone I particularly care about gets their own place to live. I haven't really been letting the people at Casa de Spare get themselves killed, though -- not even the one who's a vampire and thus extra-stupid.

I dunno why you'd want jealousy completely off, though. I let ACR handle jealousy, so I get the gamut from "we dated once so now if you date anyone else it's cheating" to "I approve of you making out with my wife!" It's a nice mix of hilarious drama and equally-hilarious lack of drama.